Strength In Men
Empowering Men Through Connection & Growth

Are you ready to change your life?

We are here to help you overcome the dark time you are going through. Please find comfort in knowing that you are not alone. We are here for you.

Work In Progress

We are starting an initiative on a centralized location for men's mental health and divorce men's resources. We will create lots of content (both on web form and on a mobile app) to help you take control of your life and not let life control you.
Please help us launch this by entering your name and email below!

Work In Progress

We are starting an initiative on a centralized location for men's mental health and divorce men's resources. We will create lots of content (both on web form and on a mobile app) to help you take control of your life and not let life control you.
Please help us launch this by entering your name and email below!

Rebuilding After the Storm: My Journey to StrengthInMen

There was a time when getting out of bed felt impossible. I was drowning in anxiety, weighed down by depression, and completely lost in the chaos of a broken marriage. Every day felt like a battle. I was a father, struggling to be there for my kids, but trapped in a marriage with a woman whose words and actions made me feel small and worthless. My ex-wife—controlling, entitled, and gaslighting—left me walking on eggshells, never knowing what would trigger her wrath. I felt like I was always trying to fix things, but nothing was ever enough. I started to believe I was the problem, that I wasn’t good enough.Her affair shattered the last remnants of my self-worth. She projected her insecurities onto me, making me question my reality. I lost myself in the process. I turned to substances to numb the pain, but they only added to the chaos. My body was falling apart, losing weight rapidly, while my mind felt foggy and unfocused. I couldn’t even make simple decisions without feeling overwhelmed. And through it all, I was trying to be a father, trying to be strong for my kids, but I was barely holding it together.I hit rock bottom. And it wasn’t until I looked at my children—innocent, trusting, and dependent on me—that something inside of me began to shift. I realized they deserved more than a broken, distracted father. They deserved someone who was present, who was strong, and who could lead them through life’s challenges. And I needed to become that person—not just for them, but for myself.It wasn’t easy. It took time, patience, and a lot of hard work. But slowly, I began to rebuild. I started with the small things—journaling my pain, confronting my emotions, and taking care of my body. I cut out the habits that kept me numb, and I focused on finding moments of peace. It was a constant struggle, but with each day that passed, the fog lifted just a little more.I found help in therapy, in conversations with other men who had gone through similar struggles. It wasn’t just the big moments that helped, but the small, everyday victories. I realized I had a choice: I could stay stuck in the past, or I could fight for a future where I was in control, where I was whole again.StrengthInMen was born from that fight. I realized that no man should have to walk this path alone. We all have our own battles—whether it’s healing from a broken marriage, overcoming mental health struggles, or just trying to find motivation in a world that often feels overwhelming. We need a place where we can be real, a place where we don’t have to hide our struggles to appear strong. We need a space to heal, to connect, and to rebuild together.I’m sharing my story because I know there are men out there who are feeling the same way I once did—lost, broken, and alone. If that’s you, know this: you are not alone. You are stronger than you think, and you have the power to rebuild. It won’t be easy, but it’s worth it. Every step forward is a victory.StrengthInMen is more than just a platform—it’s a brotherhood. It’s a space where men can share their stories, find support, and reclaim the life they deserve. Whether you’re struggling with a recent breakup, facing mental health challenges, or just feeling lost, there is a place for you here. You don’t have to face this alone.If you’re ready to rebuild, to find strength, and to connect with others who understand, I invite you to join us. Let’s rise together.

Quotes That Will Inspire You

"Bitterness is like a cancer that enters the soul." -Sir Terry Waite"The true test of character is not how much we know how to do, but how we behave when we don't know what to do." -John Holt"It's better to be at the bottom of a ladder you want to climb than halfway up one you don't." -Ricky Gervais

Recommended Books/Audiobooks

Atomic Habits

Atomic Habits helps men by providing a system for rebuilding life through small, consistent improvements. It helps regain control after hardship, improve mental health, strengthen fatherhood, build discipline in fitness and finance, and escape negative cycles. The book focuses on identity-based habits, making good habits easy and bad ones hard. It’s perfect for men looking to rebuild, stay motivated, and create lasting positive change.

Gratitude Journal

We are sorry.It will be implemented when we transition to a new platform that includes user accounts and mobile app (and synchronize according to user)

Mood Tracker

We are sorry.It will be implemented when we transition to a new platform that includes user accounts and mobile app (and synchronize according to user)

Finances

We are sorry.It will be implemented when we transition to a new platform that includes user accounts and mobile app (and synchronize according to user)

Divorced Men Resources

Community Groups

Seeking Help

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